There is no “good” experience or “bad”
experience, but the way we understand and name the situation will define the label, qualifying it.
When naming a situation we are immediately framing a certain meaning. From the meaning a reality will emerge and paths for life.
Pleasure and displeasure are a very subjective experience and that will also dependent on the values of the individual experiencing it. Our sense of what
is good and bad come from the empowerment of our past experiences.
Have you ever tried to re-frame something, to turn
displeasure into pleasure?